There were two options of wristbands at this event I attended today - green for "Single" and red for "Taken / It's Complicated / I'm Just Here to Dance". I don't fall into either category. Well that feels awkward. Like I don't belong. I'm writing because this is a common experience for me of not fitting in to the standard boxes, and I want to normalize this relationship structure that I've been dreaming of for years - a committed triadic relationship . This structure in my point of view...

Confidence. It’s such a big topic, isn’t it? As I write this, I notice moments when I feel it and others when it slips away. I want to...

Life after the flood: no running water, wondering what's next, being with the unknown and the intense feelings.