There were two options of wristbands at this event I attended today - green for "Single" and red for "Taken / It's Complicated / I'm Just Here to Dance". I don't fall into either category. Well that feels awkward. Like I don't belong. I'm writing because this is a common experience for me of not fitting in to the standard boxes, and I want to normalize this relationship structure that I've been dreaming of for years - a committed triadic relationship . This structure in my po

Life after the flood: no running water, wondering what's next, being with the unknown and the intense feelings.

I've been drawn to doing sexual healing work for years. This is an area that's held deep trauma as well as profound beauty and...